tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post1480742626857463195..comments2024-03-02T00:39:42.656-08:00Comments on My Journey Through Breast Cancer: A Spoonful of SugarMary Nickleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09102621372914508918noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-21600455582940418372013-07-09T02:54:09.957-07:002013-07-09T02:54:09.957-07:00nice post dear 24hrs pharmacynice post dear <i><a href="http://www.24hrspharma.com/" rel="nofollow"> 24hrs pharmacy </a></i><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08068555245013626548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-29688113020863072382012-03-02T11:13:54.615-08:002012-03-02T11:13:54.615-08:00I had a hard time sleeping as well and Tylenol P....I had a hard time sleeping as well and Tylenol P.M. helped me sleep.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00655942639294743742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-70086389548981124152012-02-10T14:39:59.821-08:002012-02-10T14:39:59.821-08:00Hello my friend! I wish to say that this article i...<b>Hello my friend! I wish to say that this article is amazing, nice written and include approximately all significant infos. I would like to peer more posts like this .</b><br><a href="https://sites.google.com/a/purchasing.feedbackinterview.tk/where-to-buy-cuckoo-clocks-specialty-clocks-homegarden-on-sale/hot-deals-kassel-cuckoo-clock-deer-in-forest-design-for-92-62" rel="nofollow">Kassel Cuckoo Clock Deer In Forest Design</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-40919936607642568672012-02-01T22:19:56.761-08:002012-02-01T22:19:56.761-08:00Hi Mary, I saw your facebood post today about the ...Hi Mary, I saw your facebood post today about the wig shopping and it brought back some funny memories for me. I was going through chemo this time last year for breast cancer. And losing my hair became a family adventure. My 15 year old daughter was really excited to go wig shopping with me and make sure I used it for that makeover look she had been telling me I needed for a long time. And then about the stage you are now where my hair was starting to fall out, my 9 year old son couldn't wait to help with shaving my head. He thought it was really cool. So hang in there with losing the hair. Being bald for awhile actually has its advantages.marthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421394958827313083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-37927303274369329462012-01-31T07:03:42.945-08:002012-01-31T07:03:42.945-08:00Mary thank you for your courage and sharing your j...Mary thank you for your courage and sharing your journey with everyone. I know it was hard to call in that day from work. Please don't be hard on your self, there are going to be days that you will need your rest and strength, listen to your body, if you need a day to feel better, then you should take one.<br />I have watched you on the morning news for years and somedays I forget you have cancer because you show so much positive attitudes while deep down inside you are truly scared. No one is going to look down on you when you take a day off. We all know how brave you are and how much of a hard worker you are. Please know you truly are in our thoughts and prayers. Big (((Hugs))) MindyMindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05507786085041380960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-81816296492533536592012-01-31T00:57:08.342-08:002012-01-31T00:57:08.342-08:00You explained it exactly as I remember it. It has ...You explained it exactly as I remember it. It has been almost a year since my last Chemo and Neulasta. I cry just remembering it, but I know I made it through it... Every Chemo brings one something new. Feel free to check out my journey www.melanieslemonade.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-35018940892679484682012-01-30T21:39:13.072-08:002012-01-30T21:39:13.072-08:00Hi Mary
I know the entire community would love to ...Hi Mary<br />I know the entire community would love to drop by goodies, or help make your day a little easier. Know that you are loved and we are cheering in your corner!<br />KarenKaren Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11320862762543157406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-37955125452126772242012-01-30T13:26:37.801-08:002012-01-30T13:26:37.801-08:00Sorry you're feeling the side effects of neula...Sorry you're feeling the side effects of neulasta, I was lucky to not have to bad a time with the shots.,,,however, I had mine right after each chemo treatment which were every 2 weeks for 8 treatmenst of 3 different poisons. Glad you're doing well at this point.<br />Thinking of you. :)Cancer Sucks!https://www.blogger.com/profile/18043741689281666960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-63533026834636023042012-01-30T10:24:44.613-08:002012-01-30T10:24:44.613-08:00Hi. Just came upon your blog when I was researchin...Hi. Just came upon your blog when I was researching breast cancer because a good friend has just been diagnosed. So sorry for your pain! That night must have been awful. Glad you feel better now.<br />And your poor husband, taking care of everyone and then getting sick himself! Poor guy. Hope he's better.<br /><br />My friend, like you, was taken by surprise by her diagnosis. In her case, she had a nightmare about her breast and went to check it out and yes, she had stage 2 breast cancer. She felt fine up 'till then. Now she's on chemo and feeling tired and awful. It's so strange that she felt so well before the diagnosis, and then the treatments started, which will help cure her, and they make her feel so sick.chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11873134631518712468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-8693097691302372422012-01-28T14:01:04.935-08:002012-01-28T14:01:04.935-08:00Hang in there Mary! YOu are amazing! My heart goes...Hang in there Mary! YOu are amazing! My heart goes out to you and all other women who are and have dealt with this horrible disease! God bless you all!reeniewelchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07501463544468852776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-42961704495125774322012-01-28T12:27:23.611-08:002012-01-28T12:27:23.611-08:00Hi Mary, So glad to hear an update. Although it do...Hi Mary, So glad to hear an update. Although it doesn't sound like any fun and sounds quite painful, you are still so amazing-a beautiful, talented, spirited, and courageous woman. Keep up the amazing attitude and listen to some of your favorite music-music will get you through some amazing things. Thinking of you every day. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us who admire you.nASHTONvillehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14277556061100609058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-16861955243885432182012-01-28T11:43:14.688-08:002012-01-28T11:43:14.688-08:00Hello Mary, I went with my mom to the "What W...Hello Mary, I went with my mom to the "What Women Want" expo here in St George. I qualified for the "500 Free" mamogram program offered at the expo. (My last mamo was 2009, I skipped my 2010). Having never been to the expo before and having just gotten there, I hesitated a little. But my mom insisted I do it. Thank heavens I did. I was diagnosed with breast cancer on Nov 10,2011. I had my lumpectomy on December 1st. They took 3 lymphnodes (nodes clear) I am stage 1A, grade 2 invasive HER2+. My treatment is 8 weeks of radiation, then 1 Femara pill everyday for the next 5 years. I am starting my 3rd week of radiation Jan 30th. My husband and I watch 2 News morning and night. You are an inspiration to me. Keep your chin up and know that we are hoping all goes well for you. Let's Both Kick Butt on Breast Cancer! :)CJulianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18313883336232603074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-87389976680856583322012-01-28T09:54:19.299-08:002012-01-28T09:54:19.299-08:00I forgot to sign my name on the last post!! LOVE ...I forgot to sign my name on the last post!! LOVE SHARONdakotapuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02974150987191277777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-43050939873123777522012-01-28T09:51:51.992-08:002012-01-28T09:51:51.992-08:00Hi Mary, I love how you write! I love that you c...Hi Mary, I love how you write! I love that you can find humor in your cancer and in your family's sickness. Thank you for the card. Don't know how you found time to do that! I think about your everyday, especially when our daughter is eating top ramen. I think about how you used to put an egg in yours and you LIKED it. (it was cheap eating too!) I was just in Lewiston for Jack and Regina's 50th and drove by what used to be TIDYMAN'S...remember walking into the store liked we owned it and yelling for Jim to help us find something? TOO funny! Jack and Regina said to tell you they are thinking of you and praying for you! Everyone is my friend! Sounds like you are getting some great advice from some veteran cancer survivors...you are blessed to have so much info that can help you.<br />I love you my friend. Keep writing and lean on that amazing family of yours, both your own family and your work family.dakotapuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02974150987191277777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-24405520659948819412012-01-27T14:47:16.424-08:002012-01-27T14:47:16.424-08:00Hi Mary,
Just something about the mouth sores, suc...Hi Mary,<br />Just something about the mouth sores, suck on ice during chemo, it worked for me! It will still kill your tastebuds but they will eventually return! I think what your doing is awesome, putting it out there for the public to see what really happens. The Neulasta shot SUCKS, what else can I say, I would take 2 claritin and an Aleve together to get a jump on it, it sort of helped. I started losing my hair exactly 2 weeks after my first treatment so I had my husband shave it. It's only hair and it grows back! I had 6 rounds of chemo and 35 radiation treatments and I live in a rural area so I had to drive 5 days a week for radiation and then went to work. So you will be able to do it, but don't try to be Super Woman either! If you wake up and feel bad stay home, chemo knocks the socks right off of you, at least it did me, the fatigue was unreal. Now radiation that was cake compared to chemo. You will be a SURVIVOR just like the rest of us. I have now been cancer free for 2 1/2 years and counting. My thoughts and prayers are with you. STAY STRONG and ROCK ON!<br />Terri S.Terri Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11006231944027696504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-54708316661832029822012-01-27T13:21:50.105-08:002012-01-27T13:21:50.105-08:00Mary, as Brenda mentioned above L-lysine will help...Mary, as Brenda mentioned above L-lysine will help tremendously with the mouth sores that may come. Also, if nobody said it yet, a non-alcoholic mouthwash every chance you get will help. I have 5 out of 12 chemo treatments left for appendix cancer. Always on the count down. You do a great service to everyone, bringing awareness and de-mystifying chemo. God Bless You!mitchrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00515137948320164936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-21537298067457851712012-01-27T09:13:47.665-08:002012-01-27T09:13:47.665-08:00Hi Mary - I am a 3 and 1/2 year survivor of tripl...Hi Mary - I am a 3 and 1/2 year survivor of triple A breast cancer stage 2. I was also given A, C, and T drugs as you will have to take. After doing a week of the white cell boosting shots daily it was found that they did not even work on me - so they tried Luken. I had a different symptom every hour or so with bruising the size of bricks. After several tries of those with no results on elevating white cells I just told the doctor that was it. Returned the unused vials and waited to see what happened. I stayed in the same 2 week to 3 week white cell recovery pattern as on the shots. So don't be afraid to yell "uncle" if they don't work well. My oncologist also told me that they have found that some folks who take the shots only weekly are now being diagnosed with leukemia - so don't hesitate to speak up on that question! I did the daily shots due to that reason - with hubby acting as nurse and shot-giver. As for the hair loss, it starts at around 14 days after the first treatment. And starts to grow back about 4 to 8 weeks after the last chemo treatment. The brows will go last and come back first :) Once the hair goes you will find that the scalp is very sensitive and you will be cold all the time due to the lack of hair. I found some great fuzzy hats made here in SLC Utah (maybe you could get them on the morning show as a part of your coverage on your cancer) called "Hats with Heart". The Furry Fleece Comfort Sleep Cap is the one you want to use to sleep in at night so you will not be so cold at night. Turn it inside out so the seams will not rub the scalp - yes it will make a HUGE difference in comfort. I send these to all my cancer friends and family when they are told they will need chemo. They all loved them! When I found that wigs were painful and uncomfortable I turned those hats right-side-out and wore them during the day and out and about. You will get through this as I did. And you will find your "rhythm" of your chemo. I did mine on Thursdays, worked on Friday, went downhill on Saturday, hit bottom Sunday morning, then started coming back by Monday. And you will find yours. And you will discover that sitting in a chair is not resting. It will become hard work. So learn to lie in a bed flat and let your body rest that way when you feel unrested. Even if you don't sleep, resting totally flat will help give you more energy to use later. The most important thing is to not try and be a super woman. Know your limits, ask for help from the family to do the chores and such, and accept the days that you just can't do it all. I wore a pin to all my chemos and a set of my dads dog tags from WWII. They reminded me that I needed to fight to win. The pin was a replica of the USS North Carolina battleship and it reminded me to take aim and kill those cells. The dog tags reminded me of my father's march across Germany and how he survived. Keep fighting, keep telling those cells to die, and remind yourself that each day is a victory. We'll all pulling for you!!! Fran C.TurnipTopshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12198069793522667790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-35137816538496216292012-01-27T08:09:30.243-08:002012-01-27T08:09:30.243-08:00Mary, I have never had cancer, hope to never have ...Mary, I have never had cancer, hope to never have it. It is amazing to me that people go thru it and things turn out fine and they live a better life because, they enjoy the time they have on this earth. Sometimes we just except the good life with know worries, when they find out a person they know has it, or a family member has cancer. That is when they think of there lives and appreciate life alittle better. That is what you are doing for sooo many people that are watching you. We start to take care of ourself's better and appreciate our families and friends and we turn to God for the help to get thru it all. You will Mary,then when you are over this big bump in the road and your family helps you thru it you can help others that are going thru it. That is what you are doing now, May God bless you with all the blessings you need at this time. You are a strong person, even before I heard about your cancer I thought of you and all you do, and thought of you as a very strong person then, you started strong and will end up stronger then before! What a good person you are. Take care for now be good to youself at this time of need. You have a very caring family and that is the best thing you can have, Many prayers for you and your family.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18103224658026837839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-43477502795793844662012-01-27T07:33:00.019-08:002012-01-27T07:33:00.019-08:00Hi Mary, what is it they say, "it doesn't...Hi Mary, what is it they say, "it doesn't rain but what it pours"? Reading your posts means so much to me!! I have admired you so much for so many years that having you post in such a personal way makes you feel as a very personal friend!! My thoughts and prayers are always with you, your amazing, your so strong, your such a terrific role model to so many women and to us men as well!! Take care and keep slugging, you're going to come out the winner!!utbroncohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10189404748549078576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-48501185659016410862012-01-26T20:48:31.790-08:002012-01-26T20:48:31.790-08:00My girlfriend Anne had Cancer in a different area ...My girlfriend Anne had Cancer in a different area and of a different type and had to go thru 6 rounds of chemo and Neulasta and basically was knocked out by the Neulasta for the better part of four days after the shot.... yes you are only going thru the beginning of this journey thru the valley of the shadow of death and you will be tried as she was to the limits of endurance as the effects of the chemo are cumulative. Now she is two months off the chemo and her hair is coming back in with a vengeance and her nails are starting to grow again in fits and starts as the Taxol starts to leave her body... the pain of the neuropathy is also fading rapidly and while she has OTHER challenges SHE MADE IT THRU!! and i think YOU CAN TOO GO FIGHT WIN!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-40757318537456261352012-01-26T19:34:59.847-08:002012-01-26T19:34:59.847-08:00Blast that Neulasta! That is the worst! i will n...Blast that Neulasta! That is the worst! i will not miss any part of chemo, but I will especially not miss the way that Neulasta makes me feel.Deshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09575439324607188454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-73465396317061726562012-01-26T14:26:38.809-08:002012-01-26T14:26:38.809-08:00You are so brave. It's okay to cry. My cousin ...You are so brave. It's okay to cry. My cousin has severe rheumatoid arthritis as well as many problems with her back and spine so she can certainly understand your bone pain. She too tries very hard to be brave but sometimes the tears flow. Sometimes she just watches a romantic comedy to just let it out so she can control when the tears come. Don't be ashamed to cry. You are going through a tough time and you will get through it with the wonderful support system you have. You will have good days and bad as far as emotions go and that's okay. Maybe they can cut that shot into smaller doses? I sure hope they can do something to lessen the after effects. <br /><br />I hope your family is healthy now. What a wonderful husband you have to play nurse while you are down. He's a keeper for sure. :)<br /><br />Good thoughts and prayers are coming your way.jmladyhawkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10702525084347974008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-38112913598381515312012-01-26T13:37:47.898-08:002012-01-26T13:37:47.898-08:00You are amazing Mary. You and your family are in o...You are amazing Mary. You and your family are in our families thoughts and prayers.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08565854412538373710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-86657085689765553192012-01-26T12:15:58.163-08:002012-01-26T12:15:58.163-08:00I know you don't know me but there seems to be...I know you don't know me but there seems to be a silent connection among women w/ Breast Cancer. I think of you every day and how you have to fight this battle so publically. I hope that that doesn't make you feel even more alone. I was 27 the first time I was diagnosed w/ Breast cancer. My daughter was only 10 months old. I thought I kicked is butt. I went back to school to get my nursing degree and then 2 weeks before finals in my last semester of my A.S. Degree, I found out my cancer had metastasized to my bones and liver. This time I was 29. And it is terminal. I started a blog <br />http://mylifewithstagefourbreastcancer.blogspot.com/ <br />and have been trying to find the balance between fighting as hard as I can and making my peace with the fact that I won’t be around when my daughter walks down the aisle or graduates college. But I am not commenting to complain to you I actually want to thank you for being willing to share this personal part of your life with us. You are an inspiration. I have your same doctor and I want you to know (as if you don’t already) that he is the best around. I trust him completely with my life and treatment. He is always three steps ahead of the latest research. I have never once doubted that he has my absolute best in mind. I also would like to ask you a question. (If you don’t ask then the answer is most definitely no.) I of course understand if you can’t. But the local support group Young Survivor Sisters holds and annual Celebration of Life Dinner. This year it is on February 11, at 6:30pm. Would you consider being my guest? This is a great group of girls and is different than many support groups where all the women are older. Let’s face it the challenges are different for us younger women fighting Breast Cancer with kids and careers. I am not trying to push you into the lime light but this is a beautiful night of Motivational speakers, friendship and support. I also don’t know where you would be in your chemo cycle,and if you would be up to it, I have to have chemo the Tuesday before so I will still be tired and nauseated but this night is worth it. What do you say? Please take care Mary. If I could give you any advice it would be don’t try to be Super Woman. People will understand when you need a break . But bigger than that advice is to forgive yourself if you don’t feel as bullet proof as you thought you were. Cancer is whether people like to say it or not a traumatic event and you need to allow yourself to handle it in whatever way works for you. P.S. Sorry about the neulasta that stuff really suck!Megan Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05978734602014968342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2070507234821399321.post-67666084522166755142012-01-26T11:39:40.225-08:002012-01-26T11:39:40.225-08:00Mary, I noticed you said your tongue was swollen, ...Mary, I noticed you said your tongue was swollen, when I was going through chemo my mouth got sooo sore, my dr. told me to take L-lysine, which you can get in the vitamin section. It helped tremendlously. You are going to get through this and it will just be a bad memory. Still sending the good vibes!Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16455153483662895787noreply@blogger.com