Wednesday, January 4, 2012

A New Beginning

It's New Year...when the optimist in me says, "Let's make it the best year ever!  This is the year things will go great for all of us!"  But this year, that optimist is sharing the front seat with someone who's scared of what's to come in 2012.  Cancer will do that.  Even though my cancer was caught early, and I'm healthy to face chemo and radiation, cancer is scary.

I don't want to feel weak. I don't want to lose my hair. I don't want my family to have to take care of me. I especially don't want to share all of this with a lot of people I don't even know...but it's all going to happen that way, because it has to.


As a news reporter and anchor in Utah for more than 20 years now, I have to see sharing this as an opportunity to tell a story that might save someone's life.  Funny...doing an awareness story saved my life!  I did a mammogram story late in October thinking that by seeing how easy it is for me to do, others will follow through on their screenings. 






The mammogram I had that day is what detected a small tumor in my left breast.

Things happened quickly as we went through more testing. Words kept getting scarier:  "Small, caught early, curable."  "Ultrasound, biopsy, CANCER."  "MRI, surgery, CHEMO."  "Lumpectomy, possible mastectomy, RADIATION."

Like covering a news story, I had to look further into every word, and every possible angle. I am becoming a regular on Cancer Information websites to find answers, but not always really wanting to know.  Hope for the best, and plan for the worst.  It seemed like every step of the way, the worst case scenario was the answer for my case. Yes, it's malignant. Yes, it's invasive. No, it can't be treated with hormone attacking therapy.


I will be a bit relieved once this is all public and I don't have to explain everything to everyone I tell.  I do fine when I keep it to the positive and the clinical explanations, but a few times, when first telling some friends, emotions came out.  Not really breaking down, but sad at having to give someone bad news.  I haven't cried as much as I thought I would.  I feel like I have to stay strong to keep everyone else positive.  I am really determined to keep my life and activities as normal as possible through everything that's to come.

Our twins will turn 15 in February, and I'll likely be going through chemotherapy for their birthday.  I will not missmy son's basketball games, and will cheer (with unsolicited coaching) at my daughter's volleyball tournaments!  I will drag my butt out of bed at 2:30 in the morning to get to work on time. Maybe I can sleep an extra half hour, if I have to wear a wig!  I will cook my favorite meals for my family, and not let my awesome husband become a full time nurse for me (even though he's pretty dang good at it!)
The doctors through all of this have been incredible.  Dr. Brett Parkinson is overseeing my care and is the one who diagnosed my cancer. Dr. Clark Rasmussen is the surgeon who removed the tumor and two lymph nodes with expert precision and care.  (The lymph nodes were cancer-free, btw!)  I had the surgery right before going home to Seattle for Christmas, and my huge, supportive
family helped me heal and keep the positive attitude!  I can't really write about all the friends and co-workers who are great through this, because I'd have to start another paragraph, and they'd say this is too long already!
I'll try to do updates every week or so.  In the meantime- get your screenings, and spread the word!!!

122 comments:

  1. I just watched you tell your story on the Morning News. Thank you for your courage and openness. Please know that you and you family will be in my prayers.

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  2. Wow, thanks for sharing your story. You have always been one of the women I admire and now even more so. Thank you for sharing your life and attitude with us.

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  3. Wow Mary I am so shocked just like you were probably. I watch you almost every morning! we will be praying for you and your family and that you will have the strength to to fight this!

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  4. Thank you for sharing your journey.

    Mammograms save lives, surely saved mine!

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  5. Thanks for sharing. Just curious if there is a history of cancer in your family?

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  6. You rock, Mary! You are a strong, beautiful, woman who has a spectacular support system! Stay strong, keep those goals in mind, and take a dang nap when you feel like it!!!

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  7. Mary, thank you for sharing your journey with us. I’m sure I speak for many in wishing you all the best. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

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  8. Sharing stories about cancer is so important. It reminds people to schedule thier routine check ups and screenings. Thank you for sharing your story!!
    My advice to you would be to find a cancer patients/survivors group. It helped me realize that I was not alone and there were so many people who understood how I felt and what I was going through.

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  9. Thanks for sharing Mary! You, and occasionally Ron, have always been my favorite news anchor! I enjoy seeing your smiling face.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you make this difficult journey. Let us know how things are going, and if you need anything :)

    Jessica Gale

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  10. Thanks for sharing your story Mary. I had my first mammogram last March, and they saw "something". So far I just have to have follow up ultrasound and mammo every six months, and that is scary enough to me. Thank goodness you did that initial story. Keep that good attitude going!

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  11. Mary.. My dear friend. Be strong and know we are Praying for a speedy recovery.
    Dain

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  12. Good luck Mary. I love 2 News in the Morning. You and your crew are my favorite. Love and prayers to you and your family. I know many survivors of Breast Cancer. You can beat it.

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  13. Very sorry to hear this but very happy that it was caught early. So glad you will have lots of support because that is so important.

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  14. Good Luck Mary. And my Dad never lost his hair and he had very aggressive radiation and chemo treatments. Made him really tired though.

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  15. We're with you all the way. Will keep you in our hearts and prayers.
    Dixie

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  16. Lots of Prayers will go out for you and your family...with your determination and your viewers support you will beat this!

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  17. OMH! Mary! I just saw this. Amber and I love you so much. You are in our prayers. BTW - you got this ... cancer is your bitch!

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  18. Thank you for "going public". Your story will save lives because early detection is so important. I was diagnosed with infiltrating ductal and lobular carcinoma, no lymph involvement at Stanford in 1993. I had no palpable lump, but a tiny spot on a mammogram found it early. Prayers and lots of love to you!

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  19. Oh Mary, I am a long time viewer, and can't start the day without you. You made the comment about "sharing this with total strangers," but we allo feel like we know you. I know you have a wonderful support system with your family and coworkers, but know that all of us "strangers" are also here pulling for you. I love your attitude..."100% curable, it just the steps to getting there that will suck!" Hang in there and best wishes Mary. Most of all, thanks for sharing this with us. You are an amazing woman and such a great example for us all.

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  20. I'll be here, praying for you and cheering you on!

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  21. Mary-
    From one breast cancer survivor to another- you can do this! I found a lump in August, had a lumpectomy in September and started chemo, lost my hair the first of October and now only have 2 chemo treatments left. I am 33 years old, have no history and tested negative for the breast cancer gene. I am the mother of 4 great kids- ages 5-12. I am fighting this battle so I can see them grow up. Chemo will be your best friend and your worst enemy, but I am so thankful to be doing chemo now and not 10 or 15 years ago. With all of the medications they have for the side effects, you will most likely be able to go to those basketball and volleyball games. I am tired and weak and have bad days, but I think the good days have far outweighed the bad ones.
    My road will not end at chemo- I will still have a mastectomy and radiation followed by reconstructive surgery, but to be finished with chemo will be a beautiful thing. It will mean that I am one step closer to beating this stupid cancer.
    I wish you good luck on your journey. You will find that you will be surrounded by people who want to help you and that support will be a lifesaver.
    I, too, have decided that this journey that I am on needs to be documented so I can help others who are faced with similar circumstances. I keep a blog and you are welcome to go and read up on my cancer journey thus far. It is www.markanddes.blogspot.com.
    Good luck and many prayers and positive thoughts are coming your way!
    -Desirae Ogden

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  22. I feel your pain. Normally I do not post comments on blogs of people I don't personally know, but you have my support. I've come 2/3rds of the way through myself, with just radiation left. Never in my life have I been so loved...that's all I really know for sure; that and that you will be in my prayers.

    Here's my blog. I have just 4 or 5 posts on the journey that start with "Tell it to the Hand". Hope you find some comfort, should it speak to you: http://www.syliloquies.blogspot.com/2011/07/tell-it-to-hand.html

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  23. I have watched you through the years and seen how supportive you are at Filipino-American Friendship meetings. Thank you for publishing this very personal story. It is stories like yours that make a big difference in saving lives. You are both brave and beautiful inside and out.

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  24. Oh! my gosh!! Mary, I LOVE you- and my heart is full for you and your family. Cancer "IS" scary and I commend you for sharing your story and I thank you! I have a grandmother and 2 Aunts who have had it and though I am 36 tomorrow Ü I worry about it, I want you to know how many people LOVE U!! Thank You, Thank You for all you do for our community! Best wishes and let us know what we can do for YOU!

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  25. Thanks for sharing your story Mary. We need to hear how things are going because you are a part of our lives every day. In 1977 my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. Back then they just said they got it all and didn't do radiation or chemo. Now they do so I know through modern medicine that you'll do fantastic. You're a great example to us and I'll be following your progress and journey. God bless you.

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  26. Mary, I know what you are going through. I just received news that I am now 5 years cancer free. I was diagnoised in October, Surgery in November, Chemo the first of December, lost my hair the week of Christmas and my mother who was 89 years old, died on December 30th. I had eight treatment of chemo, 30 treatments of radiation and 16 treatment of herceptin, what was the drug that saved my life. I wish you the best but know that we have the best doctors in the world right here in Salt Lake. My one thought is keep the sense of humor, I said that if cancer was going to take my hair I was going to become a redhead. I have a beautiful red wig and people couldn't believe it wasn't my own hair. It's yours if you want it! :)

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  27. Just a viewer... I am just another person who thinks you are wonderful with a great personality too! I am sorry to hear about the cancer. You will be in my prayers. Glad you are kicking this in the butt early! As a spokesperson on t.v., you can add your voice to help others with early detection. Thanks for all you do! Love watching and love you. GO MARY!!

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  28. Mary - Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. You are part of our daily lives/routines and we are here to cheer you on and send you prayers! I have admired you for as long as I've been watching you. Take care and please keep us updated. We love you!

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  29. Thank you for sharing your personal story with us strangers! I am sure you will save more than 1 life because of it! {{{HUGS}}}

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  30. Mary I just saw this....please know two things. You are in my prayers. My friends daughter who is five is going through her last round of chemo today. I am amazed by Jaylies strength and outlook.

    Secondly....thank you for sharing your story. I have learned from my own life....we all have a story and don't be afraid to share it. You will inspire many by your courage and strength. My story is not about cancer, but abuse and trying to survive a life beaten down. I began to write to help me heal and it turned in to so much more than that. People who began to read my story INSPIRED ME to tell my story!! I am no longer afraid about living up to society's standards or facing what ever is put before me. You can do this!!! Hugs, Prayer and ROAR (Roar means I love you in Dinosaur talk!) Laura

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  31. Lots of prayers coming your way from WA and CO. You are an amazing woman, and I have no doubt you will come through this with flying colors. Thanks for being upfront about it, you may save someone else's life by sharing yours. Much love from the Torgersons's.

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  32. you sound SO MUCH like my best friend, who fought and won her BC battle a few years ago! glad you are sharing your story ;)

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  33. Thanks for sharing. Sounds VERY similar to my mom's story. Found out about her cancer a week after Thanksgiving and she had a lumpectomy a week ago. It can all be scary and confusing. We are relieved her lump (and yours) was small. Not really looking forward to the daily radiation treatments for about six weeks, but if that's what has to be done, we will do it.

    Hoping for a successful recovery. Love the 2 News Morning team!

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  34. Thank you for having the courage to share your journey with all of us! With each step, know that you are loved, supported and honored for your strong and courageous spirit. Thank you for the gift of you. Bless you and your loving family. Now, go kick that cancer's ASS!!!

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  35. Mary, I love your attitude! It will help you through this I promise. I just finished my active treatment and my reconstruction surgery and I am glad to be done. It was a long painful road but it changed my life. I would give up the cancer but not the experience. I wish you the best!

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  36. We love you Mary! Everything will be fine. We will keep you in our prayers.

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  37. Mary, thank you for posting this story. I am praying for your recovery, sounds like they caught it early. I am sorry you need to go thru chemo and radiation, though. I had a lumpectomy in late 2005 (on my birthday, no less), and was told I had what is called DCIS, Ductal Carcinoma in Situ, cancer cells waiting to break out of the breast tissue. After meeting with Dr. Graydon Harker at Utah Cancer Spcialistes, he decided a 5 year round with Tamoxifen was necessary, and I fnished up in late January 2011 with that medication. I hated it because I went into immediate menopause, but I was done with children, so I had to live with that. I also had terrible night sweats, so he put me on a med called Effexor, which greatly relieved the hot flashes. I have had several mammos since the lumpectomy, and only this December did I have a call back mammo and ultra sound done (Dec. 9)...I saw you at IMC on Dec. 8th in Xray department, and again on the 9th in the Mammo Dept. I was lucky, my outcome was everything was ok. I sure hope it continues. I have enough health issues at this time without having to go thru a mastectomy too. God will bless you and your family will be so supportive of you. The community will too, now that your story is being told. A new day has dawned. Life will go on. You will finish your story, and move on to many more, not so personal ones. You are in my thoughts and I will pray for you daily.

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  38. So many things in our lives we would rather keep to ourselves, but shouldn't....I applaude your willingness to speak out on such a personal battle. Just keep in mind 'baby steps'...each day, each treatment, each step, is a step forward to a cancer free life.

    Keep smiling, attitude is everything...and let your loved ones pamper you...thoughts and Prayers are with you.

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  39. Mary, prayers go with you and your family as you fight cancer. My 5 year old granddaughter is fighting cancer/leukemia and her mom tries so hard to help her have a noraml life but sometimes the pain, sickness, hair loss, etc..is a hard pill to swollow. Avery travels from southern Utah each week for treatments at PCMC if her ANC is ok, which makes for long days but know that as others step forward to encourage it so HELPS!! Thanks to modern medicine and love & prayers from others the journey is made easier! September is childhood cancer month, maybe it would be a great month to spotlight and cheer on that wonderful cause!! It is the least funded cancer! Prayers for Mary!

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  40. Go Mary! I'm just finishing up chemo. I always looked forward to chemo, as it is my friend and helping kick cancer's butt.... :) You can do this. And after purchased hundreds of dollars worth of wigs, just decided it was easier to go bald. Being practically hairless is not at the top of things I worry about. Good for you for going public! Clearly, you rock! I will be praying for you. And as I am an old hand at chemo, mastectomy, etc... I would be happy to talk to you if you need a bit of positive thoughts on all of this. My sister's set up a facebook page to follow my progress; feel free to check it out and join it. http://www.facebook.com/groups/234514599927686/ All my best to you as you fight this battle.... (p.s. I have 16 year old twins.... we seem to have a couple of things in common!... LOL)

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  41. Wow, Mary! I am an avid 2News watcher and had no idea. I'm guessing it hasn't been announced on air yet. In any case, I send my support, love and best wishes to you and look forward to hearing about your journey... all the way to hearing you're cancer-free!

    Good luck, my friend!

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  42. Mary, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My mom fought breast cancer 11 years ago and won! You will too! It sounds like you have a wonderful support system in your family, both at home and at work. That makes all the difference. You can do it. God's blessings to you.
    Darby Evans

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  43. My husband was diagnoised with Pancreatic Cancer..a rare type called Islet Cell tumor. He has battled with strength since 2007. I started a blog for his story as well....I was theraputic for me and got the info out to all those concerened. It also helped so I didn't have to repeat the story in person so much and cry more then I already was. I will keep you and your family in our prayers. Prayers do work!! Thanks for sharing your journey and maybe inspiring others to get checked as well! HUGS!

    Sheri Wojtasek
    Woods Cross, Utah

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  44. I too had a cancer scare last year. For me the lump is on my thyroid. The biopsy came back with inconclusive. Right now I just have to wait to see if it grows. Most days I don't even think about it, but there are some days it really gets to me. I wonder what this is and could I be living with cancer inside me.

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  45. My brother survived cancer in late 2008, my Dad had his removed last November (like you, his lymph nodes were clear), though there have been countless members of both Mom's & Dad's families who've lost their fight against this evil disease.
    Thanks for sharing your story. I watch you on 2News, you always seem to have a positive outlook on life. I wish you the best.

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  46. My best to you Mary - I turn 40 this year and was planning on getting my first mammogram! Thanks for the encouragement. I have watched 2 Morning news for years and admire your constant voice for health - thanks for sharing you experience here.

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  47. Hi Mary- We don't really know each other but we have a bunch of mutual friends in the industry. I often forget that I have a breast cancer story. It's the occasional weird look of concern and the way someone asks "how are you doing" that reminds me; or seeing a post like this on FB.
    I'm so sorry to hear that you'll have to go through what I did. It was quite an excruciating process. As a reporter, I too dug and dug, did all my research, even spoke personally with Doctors outside of Utah.
    I was diagnosed with Stage 1 Breast cancer in 2009, had a lumpectomy and there was no spreading to the lymph nodes (they can't know until surgery). They say they got it all with surgery but I still went through chemo and radiation based on results from what's called an oncotypeDX test (developed here in Utah!).
    Now, I go in every 6 months for either a mammogram or MRI. So far, still clean. I have my next MRI next week. Anyway, I just want to say that your journey will be personal to you. No matter how hard you search for similarities. So don't let ANYONE tell you stories of people in their life that have had cancer unless it has a positive outcome. You don't need it.
    Here is the chronicle of my bout with breast cancer.
    http://jilladler.wordpress.com/2009/09/20/hello-world/
    If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. I get it.

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  48. Mary, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I am a Chemotherapy Nurse, and I'm so grateful you are sharing your story and hope it encourages everyone to get their mammograms and follow through with their physicals. I see too many patients that didn't catch their cancer early because they put off getting their screenings. My family will pray for you and your family. Hopefully your doctor or clinic has good support groups, one of the best is "Look Good, Feel Better".

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  49. Mary,
    I wish you strength and peace of mind during this very difficult time. You are lucky that things were caught early and I know you are an inspiration to other women who may be facing this same disease.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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  50. I blogged about my cancer as well! It was very therapeutic and a way to let everyone know what was going on without having to say it a million times. I am a 35 year old survivor. I am only a year and a half out. I am in the middle of reconstruction right now. The support is awesome but gets overwhelming really quick! Hang in there! My hair started coming out after my second chemo, it really helped to just shave it all off. I can't tell you how empowering and liberating that was! Emotionally I think losing my hair was the hardest part. I am telling you, you will never be the same woman after you are done! You will feel so different but a more humbled and grateful person! Good luck with treatment, I sure hope you can still work, etc. I wasn't able to, but everyone is different! Good luck! ps, this picture is my wig, they don't look half bad if you find a nice one, personally I loved being bald or wearing scarfs!

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  51. I am so sorry to hear about your cancer. You are a strong and amazing lady before you were diagnosed so this will help you in winning this fight.

    I am a cancer survivor from colon cancer. I have been cancer free for four months now. I was diagnosed on November 26, 2010 while visiting my son in Texas for Thanksgiving. My surgery, chemo and radiation was performed in Athens, Texas since I have no family in Wyoming. I had to leave my home and job for eight months for treatments. My son and his family took such great care of me. I am blessed to have them in my life. I think God he had this happen on my vacation because I am not sure what I would have done since we have to come to SLC for treatments. I am recovering from surgery in October that was performed in SLC. Huntsman Center has taken over my care.

    I didn't lose my hair but most colon patients do not but all the breast cancer patients I met did. So buy your wig now because your hair will fall out by your second or third chemo treatment. The best place I found for wigs is Vogue Wigs online. I bought two wigs because I was ready to lose my hair. But, I am sure there are places in SLC that will help you in that decision.

    The hardest thing for me was to ask people for help and accepting their help. You will have to do that also. Family, friemds and strangers are wonderful in helping you with your battle so accept it. Like Lisa said " Baby steps, each step, each treatment because each step is a step forward to a cancer free life. Keep smiling because attitude is everything and let your loved ones take care of you.

    Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. You are not alone in this battle. We love you and will be praying for you and your family. It's going to be a long journey but you will win!

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  52. Thank you for sharing your scary times with us. We do not feel like strangers in your life. I have watched you for a very longtime and it is funny how we get to feel like friends.
    One thign I know from watching you over the years this will not slow you down. But sometimes it is good to take the time and let someone else wait on your.To takecare of you.Sometimes is okay to cry. Don't keep all those feelings bottled up inside. That will not help you get better. Remember that we are all here praying for you and supporting you.We are a part of your life and your future no matter what.

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  53. Thank you for sharing! I have watched your show since being in Utah at BYU for the past years! You're great! I'm so sorry to hear about your diagnosis! I know you will do GREAT! We will be praying for you!

    My sister-in-law is 19 and was diagnosed in 2009 w/ Melanoma skin cancer it was on a mole, she had surgery. in April 2010 we found out she has metastatic Melanoma now. It is all over her the inside of her body. I started a blog for her to follow her journey since she was diagnosed 9 months ago. Her blog is

    http://cantkickthischick.blogspot.com/

    if you would like to follow it as well!

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  54. Mary - I will be praying for you and your family. You can do it with the Grace of God and your loving family. I watch you every morning and love your sweet personality! I am a 6 years Breast Cancer SURVIVOR. My story sounds very much like yours. I did have a mastectomy and re-construction and I feel great! I remember thinking the same thing you said this morning. "I feel fine", so it's hard to think you have something wrong in your body. I am blessed to have a supporting and loving husband, that as Marina McBride sings "I'm Gonna Love You Through It"! My Prayers to you and your family, because it will be a group effort.

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  55. Mary, Our thought and prayers are with you and your family. I know what a scary and difficult time this can be. My Mother was diagnosed with breast cancer 25 years ago. Today she is 88 years old, still has part time job, goes shopping every day and drives everywhere! ( I have a hard time keeping up with her!! ) She has her yearly mammograms and is cancer FREE!!. Many prayers were answered as I know yours will be. Respectfully, Vicky Rodriguez

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  56. I've been watching you and Ron since we moved her 15 years ago.....your twins are about the same age as my oldest. I knew nary a soul in the state, but you and Ron became my "friends" as I watched the morning and noon shows. I've just turned 40, so I'll be getting my mammogram in the next few months. I'll be thinking of you!

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  57. Mary, well Happy New Year to you....seems like your steps for the next while will be in Gods hand's. I'm an every morning and noon 2 News watcher. Your a beautiful person and God will bless you, I know you are in the palm of His hand. “Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go” (Joshua 1:9). Bless you, Teresa

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  58. Mary, I am amazed at how strong you are and how you are encouraging others to get screenings and be just as strong and brave as you. I wish you nothing but the best and I know you will kick this in the butt. Regards, Val

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  59. Oh my. I understand what you are going through. I had the same thing happening in 2010 but sadly it was in my lymph nodes and I have the Her2 gene. I started treatment in Sept of 2010 and finished chemo Dec 2010 and finished Herceptin treatments in Aug 2011. It was a long process. But I have learned so much during this unexpected journey and time really does go fast. I am so grateful for every day and for every healthy day. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish you the very best.

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  60. You know how much I just love you. I am so lucky to have your friendship and I am here for you every step. All my prayers and wishes to you.

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  61. Hang in there. One thing I've learned from battling Thyroid and Cervical cancers is to have a positive attitude even when you're exhausted, patience tried and kids running circles around you. Remain positive and the impossible can/will happen. I have been cancer free from Thyroid for 14 years and 6 months from cervical....You can beat it.

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  62. Been through this with a sister for last years. You have every right to be optomistic. Brett Parkinson is without a doubt the best there is. He will always answer questions when you get anxious. My sister worked after chemo. 3 or 4 bad days and back to work.Take each day as it comes. You'll be a survivor!

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  63. Mary, I will keep you and your family in my prayers and thoughts! My oldest daughter is the same age as your twins. The reason
    I remember this so well is because we were both riding in the elevator at
    Nordstoms in the old crossroads mall. You were so sweet to ask my then 6 month old how old she and what a happy cute girl she was then turned to me and and said
    I have two about your age, I thought this lady is down to earth and has a positive energy about her. My daughter freshman cheerleader in High School.
    I am a Wife, Mother of four wonderful children, and a daughter, friend, I also am a Cancer Survivor I was diagnosied in 2007 at the age of 32 with IBC (Inflammatory Breast Cancer) and also ductal Cancer. I was staged at 3b with 10 lymph nodes involved and did a year of Chemo (My husband made it to every appointment and Chemo session with me he is my Love and my Rock)and 32 rounds of Radiation. 6 months in I had a double mastectomy. I then had numerous surgeries after. I feel so blessed that we have such great Dr's and Hospitals in Utah. I have a great love for all the Staff at the Huntsman and count many as friends. My youngest was 2 years old at the time of my diagnoisis I didnt mind the wig I just had a lot more fun in the moring playing around with my makeup. LOL! My two year old did not like my bald head however and would ask me to put my "fakey hair back on!" at all times. She is a character and still is. I feel that I am a better person for having this disease, (maybe not at first!) I have so much more compassion for everyone! You never know what trials people are going through so I dont judge. I am so greatful for the small things the everyday things. I have always thought of my self as a positive person but now I feel it even more because "Positive in Positive out!" It has taught me to let go of the needless things in my life and just do things that make you and your family and frieds happy. It has taught me to let go of some people that should not be in my present or future because it is just time wasted that can be spent in positive ways. My oncoligist told me when I was finishing my treatment that I was givin a gift to start a new and never waste it. I look forward to birthdays because growing older is a privlege! I am thankful for all the wonderful people positive people in my life that have gone through this journey with me and continue to do so. It is hard at first to let people help you, but let them that is there way of showing their love for you. Good Luck with your journey and I hope to see you at the Race for the Cure in May it is a wonderful experience. P.S. I never missed a Football game or baseball or basketball or softball or dance recitial of my son or daughters. I might not of remembered all of them, but I was there! Cancer might take somethings from you but not your drive! Bonous during football season will it was raining and everyones hair went flat I could take my wig of shake it dry and put it back on and I looked great! You are an awesome lady all the best to you!

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  64. Mary, I have watched you for as long as I can remember. Every morning you, Ron, Debbie, and Casey put a smile in my heart and keep me laughing. I was diagonosed with breast cancer 16 years ago at age 33. My story is very similar to your...found a very small lump, had a lumpectomy, it was malignant, had my lymph nodes removed, they were clear. I had chemo and radiation, didn't lose all my hair but enough that a wig was better for me. I understand what you are going through and the journey you are about to embark on. On thing that got me through was the day I was sitting in the doctors office waiting for my chemo treatment. There was another woman sitting near me talking to a friend. She talked of the 4-6 hour chemo treatments she had to go through. Her friend, looking very concerned and trying to be empathetic asked how did she do it, how did she endure going through the long treatments, the sickness, the lack of energy, etc. The woman looked at her and simply said," because I believe all of our problems or trials in this life are 10 percent problem and 90 percent attitude." When I heard her say that I suddenly had a whole new perspective. I could do this...I can have a good attitude and do hard things. Now, 16 years later, I am still cancer free, however, I have not been "trial" free..and it's through having a positive attitude, the love and family and friends, that I am who I am today and I feel very blessed. You are amazing Mary..you will be a great example to many as you go forward with what you need to do. My prayers will be with you and your family.

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  65. Mary - I dont know you - but I feel like I do because I love watching you. A friend's daughter plays ball w your daughter. I went thru what you are going thru recently - Oct, Nov, Dec. I saw Dr Parkinson (he is wonderful). I send my prayers and love to you. This was the most shocking news when I heard it for me and just reading yours brought it all back. You are such a great person ... Good luck to you ....

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  66. I just found out I had cancer on December 19, 2011. Cancer is scary, just the word alone makes me quiver. On an emergency room visit in late October they found a mass on my right kidney after doing a CT scan. Saw a doctor about a month later after having surgery in November for another health issue. When he said the word cancer I was in shock! I saw another urologist at the University hospital. He thought I didn't have cancer because I was too young, I was a women and he said the mass didn't look like cancer. I ended up having a biopsy which confirmed that I had renal cell carcinoma. I had surgery on December 27, 2011 and it was a sucess. They believe they got all the cancer as it was contained in one area. I hope in future visits, I can come away cancer free. I wish you the best and hope that you find strength in God and the support from family and friends. Because you are in the public eye, I am sure that you will have an overwhelming response and an outpouring of love and support as you go through this ordeal. I wish you the best!

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  67. Mary,

    First, I hope everything goes well and your journey ends in a very positive note. Hope to see you at a Breast Cancer Survivor walk wearing your pink shirt for a very long time.

    On another note, though not a woman your story has motivated me to make an appointment to get my colonoscopy done (due to a medical condition I'm suppose to have one every 2 years). Your point of a moment or in this case, a day of inconvenience is worth my life has re-motivated me to make sure I do my part in case I develop colon cancer. Thank you for making your story public.

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  68. Wow, my words exactly, in October 2008 I went through this same process of hearing those words cancer, scary can't explain the feelings you feel. I am proud to say I am now a three year breast cancer survivor, each day gets better although your life is never the same, but life is good. Keep up the good work, hope all goes well for you as it has for me.

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  69. You are so awesome Mary. I have a step-daughter and cousin who faced this in 2011 and they are both doing well. I will pray for you and your family for Gods strength and healing hands of grace. Blessings
    Jeannie

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  70. Mary, I'm so sorry you have to join this club, but you WILL get through it with the love, support and prayers of friends and family. I'm celebrating my 6th year of remission from Hodgkin's Lymphoma. You are absolutely right when you said "Cancer Sucks!" It does, but you WILL kick it's butt and join the OSC (Other Side of Cancer) Team shortly. Didn't Mama always say what doesn't kill you will make you stronger? Well...kick ass and take names!!!

    My positive, healing vibes are coming your way. Take care and STAY STRONG!

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  72. Mary, I have watched you On channel 2 news for so many Years. You are always Up on Health And I would call You a wonderful example of staying fit and healthy. Your poise is amazing on the air. Your professional, yet real. I am a fan and am so sorry you have to face this terrible diagnosis. It just proves that anyone out there can get cancer. Thank You for your spirit! I know you will beat this! You are an amazing woman and I will keep you in my prayers that you recover fully, quickly, and have all the strength to do all that you want to do while you go thru chemo. Sincerly, Shelly

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  73. Mary, best wishes to you on this journey. And thank you for bravely sharing it with us, who feel like you are part of our lives even though we only know you through tv. I made my appointment this morning for my mammogram after putting it off for a few months. Seeing your story reminded me how important it is to have preventative screening. Wishing you all of the best!

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  74. Welcome to the breast cancer sisterhood. We are a large group of ladies, young and old, who have one thing in common--breast cancer. Our desire is that no one joins our group. I just celebrated my 6 year anniversary for being cancer free.

    I look forward to watching your story over next several months. Your story and your journey will do more for breast cancer awareness than you can possibly imagine. Your voice through KUTV will resonate to so many women who think they are exempt from being diagnosed with breast cancer. With any luck, you will NEVER think "Why me?" but instead will walk away thinking "Why NOT me?" As a result, your voice will encourage women who think mammograms aren't important; and your voice will strengthen those who know why they ARE important.

    You will see how strong you really are. You will laugh, and you will cry. You will see unconditional love from your friends and family (and the KUTV viewers). You will value what is important. You will feel an amazing amount of gratitude to your medical team and to women who have gone through clinical trials so your journey will successful.

    Thank you for opening your heart to share your story.

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  75. You and your family will be in my PrAyErS. You are going to KICK some cancer booty :)

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  76. You can do it, Mary! Best wishes with your treatment.

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  77. I just wanted you to know that your story boosted me to schedule a mammogram and a colonoscopy (one thing I have been putting off for two years). Thank you for your inspiration, positive attitude, courage, and strength. I have a granddaughter who was diagnosed with a cancerous brain tumor when she was 18 months old. She will soon be 5 and is doing GREAT! It was a devastating and horrible thing to see her go through but she did so good. She is an amazing little girl! God bless you to the fullest as you tackle this obstacle like I know you will. My prayers will be with you throughout your journey! Keep that "funny" attitude Mary. You are an inspiration to us all! God Bless!

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  78. Our boys played baseball together (Nathan Hyde)and I have always been impressed by your humility. Sharing such a personal experience is an absolute inspiration to all of us. Our family has been touched by breast and pancreatic cancer through family and friends. We are better people because of the experience.

    We will keep you in our prayers.
    We will be CHEERING for you!!!

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  79. Mary, i to had cancer in my left breast, 3 years ago,I amcancer free and do my follow up mamograms faithfully.. My luck was unbelievable, i didn't have to do chemo, nor radiation however i do take tomoxifin (awful stuff). My prayers are with you and your family. It's scary but keep fighting you are an awesome woman, don't let this nasty stuff get you down.God Bless

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  80. Mary, you are in my prayers. I know you will be fine!

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  81. Hang in there Mary. You will survive. My wife Pam had breast cancer 17 years ago and beat it. Sad to say she now is battling ovarian cancer and she says I will beat this one too. KCA

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  82. Mary You are strong lady you will be 100% healthy real soon. My prayers are with you and your family!

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  83. Dear Mary -
    I am 38 years old and in February will be a one year breast cancer survivor! I was diagnosed 5 weeks before my 5th baby was due and had no family history. I know what you are going through. I have been in your foot steps. It will be hard, but you can do this! Chemotherapy is NOT fun, but it is a blessing to have and is worth it. Your hair will grow back, you'll get your energy back and the cancer will be gone! I will be praying for you. I also kept a blog on my journey. It is faithofasunflower.blogspot.com

    Sending love and prayers,
    Danae Shill

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  84. I thought you might be interested in this article about Canadian researchers finding a Cancer cure: http://www.sott.net/articles/show/228583-Scientists-cure-cancer-but-no-one-takes-notice?re=2

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  85. p.s. LOVE Dr. Parkinson. You are in very good hands!

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  86. Mary, you are living each healthy woman's worst fear. You are living it proud. Keep up your wonderful attitude. Thanks for sharing. P.S.Don't read to many research articles, you are in great hands with wonderful Dr's.

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  87. I wish you all the best. I went through many of the same emotions. I was found out I had thyroid cancer in Oct 2010, and had surgery the same month. I finished treatments in January of 2011. The feelings you have expressed are the same as the ones I had. Thank you for sharing, it will help many others. There is life after cancer. Renee C

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  88. Wow, you're an incredible and strong woman!

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  89. Mary,

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. We found out last week that my mother has breast cancer and your story has helped to ease our fears about the process. You are one tough cookie and I know that we will all beat it together. We will follow your story closely and wish you the best. Thank you again!

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  90. Mary don't over do it. Take care of yourself. Your viewing friends and your family want you here for the long haul so please take care of yourself. You don't have to do everything and we will support you through this. You have become a regular member of our family every morning so take care! You are a strong health conscious woman so I know you will come through this and be more healthy than ever. You are in our prayers.

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  92. Dear Mary,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this trying time in your life. In 2011, I found out I had thyroid cancer. I was so scared, but after surgery and radiation I'm on the road to recovering from it. I found that having a positive attitude and kept telling myself I will kick this cancer's butt!! helped me. But I wanted to let your know the day I went in for radiation, I seen you at the hospital and we smiled at each other. That made my day. I thought it was neat to see you, since you are with me every day of the week for years.
    Best Wishes, you WILL bet the cancer!! :)

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  93. Mary our family is praying for your speedy and uneventful recovery. Thank you so much for sharing this part of your life with your audience. It is very brave and will bring much awareness about breast cancer. (My wife has procrastinated her mammogram too long and decided to get on it after watching.) Bless you.

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  94. Dear Mary,

    Thankyou for sharing your journey with all of us. I was 23 years old when I was diagnosed Lymphoma (blood/immune system cancer). I had 3 little girls ages 5, 2, and 1... It was the hardest thing I have ever had to go through. The doctors gave me a 50/50 shot at kicking cancer's butt... and I said " ok! I'm gonna win." I underwent Chemotherapy for 7 months, and then daily Radiation for another 3 months after that. I lost all my hair, and gained 75 pounds from all the I.V steroids. But, none of that got me down because I knew I was going to LIVE!!! I Celebrated my 2 year remission a few months ago! I KICKED CANCER'S BUTT... AND I KNOW YOU WILL TO. Ask god for his help, and he will give it, I PROMISE. I wish you the best, and I will continue to follow your story. You are a beautiful women, and will be beautiful without hair too. Take care of yourself, and don't overdue it with work! Chemo will make you more tired and nauseous than you ever thought possible. It's like being pregnant all over again. Best of luck Mary! We will keep you in our prayers.

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  95. Mary, I can't thank you enough for sharing this with 'EVERYONE'. I am almost 45 and haven't had a mammogram yet. I think the Blog article you wrote and definitely motivated me to go get a screening. I know I have procrastinated long enough. I need to face my fear. Like you said, I'd rather go through a litte boob squishing than find out too late. I wish you only the very best. You are such a strong and postive person. And I know this trial will make you even stronger! Love and Hugs to you !!Dayna C. West Jordan

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  96. Mary, You are in my prayers. Would you please read my daughter's blog....FightingMyGoliath...
    I promise that it will give you hope. Bless you, my dear. You will be okay.

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  97. Mary, Good luck to you during this process. I know that from watching you all these years you will beat this! You are more stubborn than cancer. Just try to let your family and friends help you along the way. You need to save your strength. I am sure you will have all the support you need and we will be just fine!

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  98. Mary--I went through the same thing last May. It sounds like we are so alike. A few tears, but trying to keep a positive attitude. The chemo was not as bad as I thought. It got worse by the 6th treatment--then I felt really yucky. I was afraid to loose my hair, but when it started falling out--2 weeks after my first chemo treatment on the 4th of July, I decided that my hair had taken on its own independence. Since it was going, I decided to have a short-lived mohawk. Get your wig while you still have hair. It will help to match the color and style, but let me tell you, hats are much more comfortable than a wig. I only wear my wig when going to church. Keep up the great spirit. You can contact me if you have any questions. I just finished my radiation the 1st part of December.

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  99. Hey Mary, I am sad to hear of your diagnosis. However, I was diagnosed with Ductal Cell Carcinoma in Situ in early May of 2011. I had a lumpectomy on my daughter's 23rd birthday. My surgeon, Regina Rosenthal, observed some tissue she didn't like during the surgery and removed it. It was more ductal carcinoma, however, it was invasive unlike that for which I had the lumpectomy. I had a second surgery on July 20th. My lymph nodes were clear and I am estrogen receptor positive. I healed from the second surgery and underwent six weeks of radiation at IMC (where I went for everything, btw). I LOVE that hospital! My radiologist is Jennifer Fishbach at IMC. I cannot say enough about my experience there. I didn't have to have chemo and will pray for you to have as few side effects as possible. The radiation was fine. It wasn't until the end of the third week that I saw and felt the side effects. But just as with a mammogram, just when you feel you can't take one more minute-it's over. Ask for the cream and the white spongy bandage type material when the bottom side of your breast becomes a problem! Good luck and thanks for sharing your story! It will help many women feel connected.
    Carol

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  101. My large family has no history of cancer, and I am the only one who has gotten regular screenings. Your story made me contact all of them and ask them to be screened. You and your family are in my prayers. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story.

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  102. Mary, YOU ARE THE REASON I watch channel 2 news and have done so for years now! You are a beautiful, inspirational woman and I am so glad you found this so soon. You will recover because you are healthy and strong and have great family and friends that love and support you. When I heard your announcement this morning, I teared up as I was getting ready for work (and again tonight when they featured the piece at 10:00). You truly are the reason I have watched KUTV. You are such a pleasant person. You are in thousands of people's hearts and prayers and you will beat this! Thank you for being such an inspiration to many women.
    Sincerely, Donna

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  103. We share a very close story, except this year in Nov. will be 10 years cancer free. You are very much in my prayers. Mary if you have any questions please feel free to contact me. Our story is so similar. By the way bald is easy and beautiful. You will be the first ready to go and waiting on everyone else. The season is good also. Hats in the winter and a cute Do in the late spring-summer. God Bless you Mary and your family.

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  104. I am a five year breast cancer survivor with a story similar to yours. Chances are you WILL lose your hair, my advice would be to find a wig you like while you still have it, then get your hair cut like the wig. Then, when your hair falls out, it won't be as noticeable (of course, you are in the public eye, so I'm sure people will notice everything, like it or not). I would also say get a shorter wig- longer wigs tend to get matted at the neck, especially in the winter. For me, chemo made me progressively sicker with every treatment- but I was able to keep up with my life as a high school teacher and mother of six. Don't be too hard on yourself- you WILL get tired. You don't have to be superwoman. Radiation is also draining, but to my experience not nearly as hard as chemo. Tamoxifen and other hormone treatments, for me, haven't been that bad.

    Anyway, you can do this. I am a two time survivor (I also had thyroid cancer), and although the experience isn't one I would ever choose, it has taught me so many things, and really made me so much more appreciative of the simple things and more compassionate for others. So, there is a silver lining.

    Hang in there. You can do this. But, if you're too tired, take a break. We will all understand, and be glad when you are back.

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  105. My good friend was diagnosed with breast cancer and blogged about it. I know you're busy, but if you get a chance check out her blog, it's full of hope. http://sanibeldaydreams.blogspot.com/

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  106. Mary, thank you for sharing. I am a cancer survivor and recently lost my gma and 2nd mom to cancer. One other blessing that will come from u sharing this story is you will always have many people commenting and supporting you through your journey. I know all will be well.. You are a fighter I can tell. Hold your head up high and know we are all here for you.

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  107. Mary- I can relate to your story because it is very similar to mine. In 2010 I found a lump and after a couple of months it hadn't gone away. I was 34 at the time and when I called to schedule a mammogram, I couldn't get one directly without my primary physician referring me because I was too young- even with a lump. So, I started the process and my biopsy came back with the result of Stage 2 breast cancer with no family history. I got the genetic screening done and it came back negative too. I thought I would cry a lot more through all of it as well- sharing the news with my friends and family, going through surgery, chemo and radiation... But I kept a positive outlook on the whole thing. It was a hurdle and I just needed to get over it and move on. I too had a wonderful support network between friends, family and co-workers. From experience, the more open and comfortable you are with the situation, the more everyone around you will be too.
    If I can recommend a great place for wigs, hats, scarves, etc.... It's called Headcovers. It's in Millcreek on 33rd South and 23rd East on the West side of the street next to Blockbuster. The place isn't huge, but the owner is so nice. I ended up getting a hat and decorating it with cute flower pins and scarves.
    As others have said, you will be tired and worn down some days. Chemo wasn't too bad for me- but the Nulasta (not sure if that is the correct spelling or not) shots were killers. I had to have one after every chemo treatment to help build back up the body to face another round of chemo 3 weeks later. Radiation wasn't bad for me at all. I had about 36 treatments and did them each day on my way home from work. It was more of a pain to get undressed and dressed than it was to have the actual radiation.
    I know that you keep yourself in good health and this will also be a positive asset as you face your next few months. I appreciate your story, for your sharing it with all of us and I have loved reading the other posts of love and support- even if we are complete strangers.
    Best of luck- we're all pulling, praying and rooting for you! And we hope to see you at the Susan G. Koman Race for the cure in your pink survivor shirt standing proudly with the rest of us! We are strong. We are women. We are survivors!

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  108. Just read your story. I know what that word does to someone when they first hear it. Mine is lymphoma, or at least, we think it is. Dr. Clark Rasmussen is removing my spleen on Monday. I just met him through all this but have felt good about the surgery...it helps to know that you were pleased as well. Good luck to you as you go forward. I probably will be having chemo at the same time. We should get together!!!!

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  109. Mary - I just wanted to pass this along and you can take it with a grain of salt. As Kate mentioned, the effects of the Neulasta shots are killer. Out of my 4 treatments, thankfully, I only needed one shot because my blood counts were so good. (I am so thankful to my Oncologist for not making me endure those shots since it wasn't totally necessary!) BUT... I was told to try taking a Claritin to help with the bone pain. It sounds silly, but really did help me. I hope it may be helpful for you as well. You can do this!

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  110. Thoughts and prayers are with you

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  111. I have been a fan of yours for 20 years and would like you to know that while I haven't had to experience your Sucks (because it really does) diagnosis! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers! When I do my annual Race for the Cure Walk I will walk in Celebration of Mary Nickels! Love to you and yours, Rhonda Kelley <3

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  112. Mary, you are now party of the PINK club. Too darn many of us! I am part of that not once...but twice. Just an FYI...the American Cancer Society has a place where you can go learn to put on makeup, feel pretty and get wigs if you are going through chemo. My mom went there and they give you make up from many dept. store quality make up companies. THAT WOULD BE A GOOD NEWS STORY. We often wonder where our donations really go...
    be tough...we know you are and remember that your hair does not DEFINE who you are....we all know you are wonderful, compassionate and a HUGE part of our daily loves...through TV osmosis. You will be a fabulous spokesperson for breast cancer, can't you see the impact you have already made.
    good job Mary...if you ever wondered what your purpose was...He just sent you a very REAL clue!

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  113. Mary
    I have been a fan of yours for years. I just love you!
    Welcome to the Breast Cancer Adventure.
    1-9-2012 will be my 5th anniversary when they told me I was going to have the adventure of my life. Stage 4. I had a double mastecomy now I have two beautiful tatoos.
    I went to work bald everyday I just couldn't do wigs. I made sure no one felt sorry for me. they just watched the adventure.
    If they want you to get a port for your Chemo I would again just make sure the doctor gives you lidocane to put on it an hour before your Chemo.
    I had 8 Chemos and 25 sessions of Radiation I did Radiation on my lunch :).
    Keep moving like nothing is wrong. Laugh alot! Stay Positive! Like you are now
    You will kick it's butt!!!!
    If you ever need anyone to talk to we are here. If your husband needs to talk to anyone mine is here.
    Cecil took me to every doctor appointment and made sure I ate.
    At least a week before your first Chemo don't eat any of your most favorite foods.
    During Chemo food was awful to me some people it's not. I hope it's not for you. I was able to eat mild things Cream of Potatoe soup, Potatoes and gravy, vegitian vegetable soup was good, carnation instant breakfast with ice cream was helpful and also good. Ensure and Boost drinks helped.

    Laugh Often.
    if you ever need anything we are here for you just call.
    Your new Breast Cancer Sister Marlaine 801-295-7550

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  115. Dearest Mary, Dr. Parkinson was the one who found my cancer. He is such a kind and caring person. I then had Dr. Rasmussen operate on me and he too was a great one to have in your corner. Now I start radiation this coming Monday. My husband has been there every minute, just like he said he would. My family and friends have made sure they are there for me. I feel like the Lord knows what I need and he has sent all these good people to help me through this trail. I wish you all the comfort and peace you need at this trying time. Your new caring friend. Jackie

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  116. Hello Mary
    I forgot to tell you the best Book my sisters and I read in regards to Breast Cancer is Breast Cancer for Dummies. Barnes and Noble sells it
    Read it please
    Remember Laugh often
    your friend Marlaine

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  117. Mary the day before each Chemo eat eggs and red meat this will also keep your bloods cells at an acceptable level to accept Chemo
    Marlaine

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  118. Mary, as many of the other people who've posted on your blog, I too am a huge fan of yours. My heros have always been strong, dedicated and loyal. Thanks for being a hero to me. You are so brave and I admire you for your strength. Thanks so much for sharing this with us as you have a huge cheerleading section just for you!
    Mandi Covington

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  119. You are such an amazing woman Mary! I watch you every day, and can't believe how incredibly strong you are. I know you will win this battle, before you know it you will be looking back on it and laughing in that cancer's face!

    All your fans love you!

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  120. Mary,

    I am in Ohio and just heard about your bad news.
    I want you to know you are in m y prayers.

    Stay strong, and thank GOD you detected it early.

    May your suffering be short, and your recovery be even shorter!

    God bless!

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  121. You look great with your new hair. I remember this day. I am so proud of you sharing this journey publicly. The "C" word is scary to everyone. You are an inspiraton.

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  122. the worst words someone can say to you is "you have cancer" no one knows how that feels until they hear it! I had complete mastecomy in Mar. 09 with lymph nodes. I was a wreck, I am still recovering from two blown anuerysms in the frontal lobe of my brain, and if you know anything about the brain, that is where all of your impulses are and happy, sad, mad and it can change in split sec. so when I went for my normal mamo I was not worried when they called for more pictures but that led to ultra sound and that led to invasive carsinoma with lymph nodes! I think because of losing a niece at the age of 38 and watching my Mother and sister die of different kinds of cancer my poor brain just could not deal with another blow! So I love your attitude and wish mine had been better. As for the wigs, my brain surgeon at the U of U only shaved half of my head cause all he needed was to remove half of my schull but horrible haircut! Should not complain since he only gave my family a 5% of living and if I did who knew what I would be again? Husband bought me a beautiful wig but the dang thing was so uncomfortable I usually just wore a cute fuzzy hat since it was winter anyway 12/31/07 was brain surgery and yes I lost most of short term memory but long term pretty good cause I remember getting ready for work one morning and you told the joke about the moth balls, I was still laughing all the way to work. Keep up the good work and try to keep that positive attitude, I wish I would have had a better one but after watching my 38 year old niece fight it for five years and lose and Mother and sister died of different kinds of cancer it was very hard to not think the worst. My husband retired after 42 years to be home with me because I am not really safe to be left to long can always think of doing something that I am not supposed to do! I am a fighter or as my family calls me "bullheaded" "stubborn" and a few other things. I am so happy you are doing so well with chemo and radiation, I did not have to have either of those, just a pill every morning that is packed with it's own side effects! We pray for your health and keep the attitude, you are our hero! But don't forget your rest!
    I will work harder on my attitude by watching you!

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